This is a generic issue.
I have thought I’d have no problem in a nursing home at my age, no one would care about my sexuality—I of course have not been “active” for years anyway. But I would stay in my house as long as possible because it is easier, and actually cheaper for me and the goernement/social security/medicare/medicaid, etc. That is the blessing and question about Triangle Square in Hollywood and the one they are planning in Philadelphia. Most retirement places now have regular apartments or rooms and then a section for later when you need assistance, etc. But except for these two, they are expensive and of course these two are gay-friendly.